Russian Wedding Customs

March 26th, 2009

In many ways, Russian weddings are simpler than those in the United States. The guest lists are shorter (usually under 100), there is not a wedding party, and in general, less fuss is made about details like the flowers and music. What is important is having a really, really fun party with an abundant supply of alcohol and food.

All couples in Russia must be married at the Registry office to make it official. A short church ceremony can follow the civil service, if desired. Generally there is a small group of witnesses present for the ceremony, with most of the guests making their appearance at the reception. The ceremony can be very amusing, with funny scripts being read by the close friends and family members of the couple.

Traditional Russian wedding attire consisted of an elaborately embroidered pinafore worn over a fancy blouse. Pearl bridal jewelry has been worn by Russian brides for hundreds of years, and still is today. In addition to a pearl necklace, another popular form of bridal jewelry in Russia was a string of turquoise beads, which represent fidelity. These days, Russian brides wear white wedding gowns very similar to what is worn in Western countries, although they are more likely to be handmade by the bride or her mother.

The ceremony is followed by a reception at a restaurant or home, and this is when the party really gets started. The bride and groom will be greeted with many toasts, such as “Za molodykh!” (for the newlywed), and there is much cheering and kissing. Many of the assembled guests will offer up a toast to the bride and groom, and at that time will give them a gift (cash is customary). After the toasting there will be eating, dancing, more eating, and plenty of drinking. Remember,  it is considered rude to stay sober at a Russian celebration!

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