Quiz: How Should Bridesmaids Be Treated?
Every bride has bridesmaids, but not every bride has the same reputation amongst her bridal party. Some are called bridezilla behind their backs, while other brides are known as being gracious. Take this quiz to find out if you know how you should treat your bridesmaids.
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The main purpose of bridesmaids is:
a. to lend support to the bride and to help her celebrate a joyous occasion in her life
b. to run errands, throw parties, and generally be at the bride’s beck and call for a year
c. who knows?
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True or false: bridesmaids are obligated to throw the bride a bridal shower and a bachelorette party.
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The bride should show her appreciation for her attendants in the following way:
a. by asking as little of them as possible
b. giving them thoughtful bridesmaid gifts, such as jewelry or engraved silver items
c. bridesmaid gifts? The honor of being in my wedding is all the gift any bridesmaid needs!
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If one of my former bridesmaids asked me to be in her wedding, I would be:
a. delighted! I can’t wait to help my friend as much as she helped me with my wedding.
b. irritated; why should I spend all that time and money being in a wedding?
c. terrified! Did she invite me just to get revenge for the way I acted when she was my bridesmaid?
Answers:
1.a. Bridesmaid should be there to help the bride with minor wedding planning as their schedules allow, but their main purpose is just to be there in friendship for the bride on her wedding day. Far too many brides forget that bridesmaids are not their indentured servants!
2.False. Bridesmaids are under no obligation to throw any parties for the bride. It is true that bridesmaids will often get together to plan a shower, but they certainly do not have to, and the bride should never tell them to give her a party.
3.b. Show your bridesmaids how much you appreciate them with thoughtful bridesmaid gifts! Items with lasting value like jewelry or picture frames tend to be among the most popular gift ideas. Although it is kind to ask little of your attendants, it is not enough of a gift. And no, being in your wedding is not such a high honor that a proper present becomes unnecessary.
4. a. Of course you should be happy to get to return the favor when a former bridesmaid comes to you! After all, she is probably relying on the experience of a friend who is already married to help her figure out how to plan her wedding. It is not so nice to be irritated by a friend’s attempt to honor your friendship by inviting you to be in her wedding. For those who chose c, if you were such a bridezilla that you fear retribution, well…turnabout is fair play!
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See how much you already know and what more you need to learn with this fun quiz for grooms…
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During the wedding ceremony, when does the groom walk down the aisle? Is it:
a. right before the bride
b. immediately following the bride
c. arm in arm with the bride
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What parts of a wedding is the groom traditionally responsible for financing?
a. the bride’s wedding jewelry, her bouquet, and the honeymoon
b. all of the flowers and the band
c. nothing
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True or false: the groom should give his attendants groomsmen gifts to thank them for being in the wedding?
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Which is more formal, black tie or white tie?
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What is the cost of the average American wedding?
a. $8,000
b. $18,000
c. $28,000
Answers:
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Sorry guys, this was a trick question right off the bat! The correct answer is none of the above. The groom and the groomsmen do not walk down the aisle during the processional at all. They make their way to the altar from the side, and wait there during the processional.
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a. The groom traditionally was responsible for the bride’s wedding jewelry (including her engagement ring, wedding band, and a gift of jewelry to be worn at the wedding), the bride’s bouquet (but not the rest of the flowers), and the honeymoon trip.
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True. It is customary to show your appreciation for your attendants with nice groomsmen gifts. Classic choices include silver pocketknives, engraved flasks, and silver cufflinks.
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White tie is the most formal, and is rarely seen these days.
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c. The average cost of an American wedding is around $28,000, and can run considerably more in certain cities.
So how did you do? Are you a wedding planning MVP yet, or still waiting to be called up from the minor leagues? Whichever the case, if you do your best to help the bride and keep her feeling happy and relaxed, you are sure to have a terrific wedding.
